Epistle Of Bertha "Bee" Smith

 

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(Note of Editor, Don Smith: I have place italics from time to time to clarify meanings.)

This is an open letter. I just jotted things down as I thought of them.

 

I met Tom and Aunt Lucy’s (Thomas Rogers Smith and Lucy Minerva Anne Thurman) eldest daughter Marguerite and her two adopted girls out at Romoland, California many years ago. They were very unfriendly and really didn’t want to meet Earl (Earl David Smith) and me and wouldn’t tell us the girls’ names.

 

I knew very well the next one, Mary Alice Smith Hendrix, and her daughters Patty and Judy. When Earl (Bee’s husband, Earl David Smith. Death: Sep 1978) died so suddenly, Mary’s husband Sam (Samuel Allen Hendrix. Death: Nov 1978) was in shock and died within a month in Sunnyvale, California, and was buried in Poplar Bluff, Missouri. The same thing happened to Ray Lawrence (Raymond Leslie Lawrence, son of Margaret “ Maggie” Smith and Leslie Lawrence). He was in shock over Earl, they said and died about the next month (Death: JAN 1979). Three in a row.

 

Mary had such a Southern accent. She said Ain’t Emmer and Uncle Ermel – Aunt Emma and Uncle Elmer she meant. Hershel’s name is not William; it is Willard Hershel Smith. I’ll go over your book and proofread it as you requested. Looks pretty good to me, though. Great job, especially the history. I haven’t put the history parts into my work. I was doing well in those days to get all the lineage that I did. With 5 kids and a pastor’s wife and sometimes having to hold a job. And in the early years, I also taught Sunday school. So I grabbed a minute where and when I could. Then when Earl decided to go back to school (Bible College), I worked the same as Mary, at Fairchild semi-conductor plant, located sort of  between Sunnyvale and Mountain View, California, near the Bayshore Freeway. Next I worked for Syvania. Also I was office manager for Kishmir Carpet for Earl.

 

Uncle Tom’s middle name was ROGERS with as “s”. He told me because the family, either the Williams or Smith family, was related to the Rogers family. The same name was given to Hershel’s son Richard Rogers Smith. There were Rogers in Union City, Obion County, Tennessee where they were from.

 

Sally (Sarah Ruth “Sally” Smith Sweicki) said when the Smiths left Tennessee because of the Night Riders, they went to Missouri. Tom and Elmer (Thomas Rogers Smith and Elmer B. Smith, Sr.) both said that they went to Oklahoma, somewhere near El Reno in the Oklahoma City area, as they had family there. I have never been able to figure out who. I’ll try the 1930 census some day to see what it offers. I’ll first check my notes to see when the family left Tennessee. I think Mattie (Mattie Lee Smith) and her family came to California in a truck, with Paul? (Paul Roger Brooks) driving. They had a flat-bed truck with rails. All the older kids rode in the back, she said. Earl said that Henry (Robert Bernard Henry Brooks) used

to eat with his knife, English style. One of the boys, probably Orville (Orville William Brooks), sharpened the edge of his knife and it cut Henry’s mouth. Ruth Brooks, Paul Brooks and Lois, John D. Smith’s daughter all married Sanders. Juanita L. Smith and Ralph Smith (children of Elmer B. Smith, Sr.) married Frenchs. Now, back to the Brooks, Tom (Thomas Rogers Smith) told me that Pascal (Unknown person) (I’ve called her Pat) was snarling about the family and claimed they were no kin or some such thing, and he told her “Well you weren’t born on a stump!” He was great; I wish you could have known him. When the Brooks boys came to visit, he said, you had to have everything glued down. Ha. Do you have any info on Bob Brooks (Robert Earl Brooks)? I have none. I went to school with him until he dropped out. Apparently, he was behind as Pat (Patricia Ann Brooks) was in in my class; also, she was older.

           

We spent our wedding night at my sisters’ house in San Jacinto, California. The next morning Earl went by to tell Aunt Mattie (Mattie Lee Smith/Brooks) goodbye. Lucille (Lucille Mell Brooks) asked for me to come in. All the girls were twittering. Lucille asked me how I liked married life (referring to sex). I said just one night doesn’t mean married life; it is day in and day out living, caring for each other and having babies and showing how you car, etcetera. Aunt Mattie said, “That’s right”. Pat said that she would want to be in the family if there were a famous person in the family, so that she could brag on it. Dorris (Dorris Darlene Brooks) was the best one of Aunt Mattie’s family; it’s ashamed she died so young.

 

Sally brought Uncle Tom and her young son, Jeff, to visit us here in Oklahoma about 1977, less than 3 months before Earl died. I was

so glad Earl got to see Uncle Tom again. Tom’s last trip – he was not too well.

 

When Earl was a little boy, he had rheumatic fever and it damaged his heart valve. Also he had scarlet fever. Elmer didn’t call for a doctor as they prayed for him. Neighbors said they’d repo him if he didn’t call a doctor, so he did. The doctor checked Earl over and said that he was dying. And he died. The doctor verified his death as still there, and pulled the sheet over Earl’s head. Mom Mrytle (Earl’s mother, Mrytle Della London) couldn’t accept that, so she scooped Earl up into her arms and went to rocking him in the rocking chair. She began to pray and ask God to save her son as God had told her he (God) had a work for Earl. She kept praising the Lord and Earl began to move. A little arm threw back the sheet and a little voice said, “I’m hungry, Mom.” His fever had been so high that his hair turned red. Uncle Tom and Aunt Lucy took him home and took care of him. Tom gave haircuts and cut off all of Earl’s red hair. The blonde hair came back.

 

Hershel’s (Willard Hershel Smith) wife was a London. She was a first cousin to Myrtle, Earl’s mom and Elmer’s wife. Myrtle’s father was Thomas Napoleon London and he married Amanda Henrietta Williams (Her first husband was Luke Lee Smith, Jr., who died in 1896). Hershel’s wife’s name was Virginia Ollie London. Joshua was Virginia’s dad. Her older sister, Ruth London Mooney,  lived and died last year in Fredericktown, Missouri. Uncle Jim London stayed in a little cabin on Rod Mooney’s (Husband of Ruth London) farm. He liked to take a nip and then. He was a jeweler in his day. If Rod caught Jim drinking, Jim would say, “We’ll just put in up here on the shelf and later on we’ll all take a little nip”. He knew Rod never drank. He and Ruth were Christians. Jim had his funeral money. His only son wanted him to live with them in Southern California, so Jim went. His son learned that Jim had the funeral money and he borrowed it. Then Jim died suddenly. Their son had called Virginia one morning and told her that he was bringing Uncle Jim home for her and Hershel to care for and went there to Sunnyvale before lunch and flew back to L.A. So when Jim died we all chipped in to help with the funeral expenses. Jim was good to keep the plastic plant in the corner of the living room watered. He was faithful. For awhile Virginia couldn’t figure out what smelled. Ha. He would forget where he was and who we were. None of us ever heard form Jim’s daughter-in-law or her son again. I had a new pair of black suede shoed that I wore to the funeral. I stepped into a freshly covered grave nearby and Hershel grabbed me and pulled me out and he got stuck.

 

Did you know Elmer married the second time? He went to Alabama with Brother Sherrill for a tent meeting. He was lonely after mom died. In Birmingham he met Mexie Smith (Not related) and they married. They were together a few short months. She made draperies. Everyday at noon all her kids, wives and husbands and their kids came there for noon dinner. He got tired of the setup and came back to Missouri. Earl and I met her in Fredericktown when Mexie came up to visit Elmer. I recall I set her hair for Sunday for church. They never got together again. a few years later Earl got a call from her. She was getting a divorce and wanted to be sure Elmer would not contest it. Earl told her that Dad would accept whatever she wanted to do, that he didn’t want anything from her. She was pleased and hung up. We never heard from her again.

 

The house were Earl was born was “Polie” London’s (unknown person), more like a tiny cabin. When Earl was a boy, he was in the living room taking a bath in a wash tub, by the wood stove. Someone knocked on the door. Earl flew out of there and skidded across the floor and just barely missed sliding into the stove. There was Dessie’s “hole” or Aunt Alice’s “hole”. Alice was Virginia and Ruth’s mother. Hershel and Virginia brought Aunt Alice to California on a trip before they moved there. Alice had a bad heart and they were worried about her. She said if the trip caused her death it would have been worth it. She came to our new home we built in Palo Alto. I served  coffee. She said, “Now, that’s real coffee!” Instant coffee had just come out and min was fresh perked. Mom Myrtle would look all over the house for her glasses. “Alice, have you seen my glasses?” “Well, have you looked on your head?” They were slid up onto her hair. Then, they’d both laugh. They were good friends. We made lots of trips to Fredericktown, so I knew all the family.

 

On one of our trips we decided to take Elmer and Myrtle toTennessee to see all of Walters family. This was after he died. Aunt Mae (Mai Bell Armstrong/Smith, wife of Walter Lee Smith) called in all her family and filled the table with food. “Now, ya all just take out and help yourself”. And we did. Her grandson, George, says, “My name is George Lee!” He was a little boy and he spelled it out real fast. Sure cute. All the girls brought food and we had fun.

 

Elmer had two funerals, one in California for family there. My girls went to it. Then Betty and Juanita flew him to St. Louis and on to Frederick-town, Missouri. He was buried by Myrtle there in Masonic Cemetery. My boys and I went to the funeral. Betty, Juanita, Sally, Miriam Jane, my boys, Ruth and XXX (unknown word) – we were eating dinner and Miriam said, “Oh, I got gravy on my blouse. Do you know the product “Shout?” So Ruth spoke up, “Honey, why don’t you scream it out?” We all roared. Gary was in the Air Force and was at Montgomery, Alabama. I had to call so that he could get home and come to the funeral. All the way from Joplin, Missouri to Ruth’s house we had to keep putting in water in the radiator. We got a motel late and then on to Ruth’s house. After the funeral, we drove home at night (cooler) so we didn’t have to stop so much for water. We got back to Joplin at 5:00 a.m. It took about 8 hours; we played 8 track cassettes all night.

 

Do you like Mexican food? I make a mean enchilada as well as other stuff. All my family loves it. I make chicken, or turkey Olé too, which removes a lot of the calories. Ha.

 

I only met Emma and John (Emma Deller Thurman and John D. Smith) once in Mountain View, California. Do you know how Irma (Irme Jean Meyer/Smith) is doing?

 

 

Work I Have Done


SMITH FAMILY:

Myrtle Della London, Taylor, Lathrop (To England on most)

Meek to Wales 14 or 15 generations

Rouse to1617 – Germany, Batvaria

Tinley to England

Alsas to Lorraine (I am 10th generation)

Chalker to England, to Ooto Asia Minor

Addison to England

Allen

Frasor/Frazier

T. S. Williams

My T. J. Williams, Carroll (Bible)

Allen, Winstead, Pate and other names

Hill (My Grandpa James Wesley Hill Birth: 1858)

 

Through all this, I have run across some comical stuff. One guy (London line) bought a new farm, loaded wagon and kids, wife said no, she wouldn’t go. He started the wagon and before he was off the property, she had pulled all the kids out of the wagon; he kept on

 

When I find it, I’ll make a copy of Amanda for you. It is in storage. I don’t recall all I have.

 

Found lots of Hills in census. Grandme born in Vestal, Broome County. He was born in another town. Moved to PA. He was called Wes.

 

Earl and I traveled a lot. I checked the phone book at motels, newspapers, genealogy helper and cemeteries. Even put up a concrete headstone that was knocked over. There was a man in Fredtn, MO named Willie Green London, related to the Londons, also Nellie Mauser to Myrtle London. Never had a chance to check it out. Thomas Napoleon “Polie” London’s first wife was buried where they put in Lake Wappapello, Missouri, so they had to move the graves. I was unable to find out to where they were moved.

 

Hershel, Virginia, Earl and Ifished all day on a boat there. Earl-0, Virginia-0 and Hershel-1. I got 1. But, we had fun. Than we went to Couler City (a wide spot in a road) up near St. Louis for chicken dinner all-you-can-eat, picnic style. There was an army surplus store. We went in. They had a whole 50 gallon barrel of dentures (false teeth). The next year, we went in and it was reduced to a dish pan full. Now you know how to get a bargain. It really stormed. As soon as we got home, Hershel had a call to go back with a tow truck, just pouring hard rain.

 

 

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